XOXO

XOXO Grapefruit Candle

Regular price $28.85
Soy Double Wick Candle
60+ hours of burn time
Soy & Coconut Blend Wax

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A grapefruit candle that opens on sage and grapefruit together reads easy and unfussy from the first flame, and XOXO commits to that casual register through every stage of the scent arc. Sea salt and tea keep the middle relaxed rather than ceremonial, and ambrette seed with cedarwood closes the base warm without effort or pretension. Wax sourcing is straightforward: soy from one American farm, pressed and merged with coconut in a blend calibrated specifically for high volatility citrus compounds that would otherwise flash and disappear inside the first twenty minutes of any session. Heavy glass cradles its cotton wicks — both sized for uniform wax coverage from the start, and the vessel carries upward of sixty hours of clean-burning, entirely vegan fragrance — all-plant ingredients, free of paraffin and phthalates entirely — and the cedarwood anchors the grapefruit long enough that the base is still identifiable well after the sage has faded from the room.

Product detail
  • Wax: Mixture of soy and coconut wax
  • Container: Glass
  • Wick: Cotton double wick
  • Burn Time: 60+ Hours
  • Size: 8oz

The double wick design means an even, smooth burn every time—no tunneling, no soot, no nonsense. Just steady flames, good vibes, and maybe a little self-congratulation for your impeccable taste.

Scent Notes

Top: Sage, Grapefruit, Frankincense

Middle: Sea Salt, Red Algae, Tea

Base: Ambrette Seed, Wood, Cedarwood

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Meet your new obsession: the Modern Fling Two-Wick 8 oz Candle. It’s the candle that smells amazing, burns beautifully, and makes your home feel like it has its life together. Made from a clean-burning coconut soy wax blend (vegan, obviously), this little beauty delivers a bold scent throw that fills the room—not just the corner of your coffee table. With over 60 hours of burn time, it’s a commitment you’ll actually want to keep.

Candle Care Instructions

Candle Care (Because You’re Basically an Adult Now)

  • Trim your wicks to ¼" before lighting. Unless you enjoy mushroom tops—no judgment.
  • Let it burn edge to edge the first time (3 hours minimum). This isn’t a speed date.
  • Keep those wicks centered and upright—like your standards.
  • Limit burn time to 4 hours per session. Even candles need a rest day.
  • When you’re down to ¼" of wax, it’s time to part ways. Try not to cry.

Bonus Round: Recycle & Reuse

Packaging? Fully recyclable.

That gorgeous glass jar? Don’t toss it. Give it a second life as a plant pot, makeup brush holder, or home for random paperclips. Because sustainability looks good on you.

Shipping & returns

Shipping

  • Free shipping: Orders $200+ within the US
  • Standard: 5–8 business days, Express 2–3 business days (at checkout)
  • International Ships: to 40 countries — rates at checkout
  • Packaging Ships: in outer box to protect gift box

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Returns

We accept returns within 30 days of delivery on unused items in original packaging. If your piece arrives damaged, contact us within 7 days with a photo and we will replace it at no charge.

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The Scent Journey

Light XOXO and the sage and grapefruit open first — bright, clean, the scent of someone who actually reads the whole message before responding. Frankincense steadies it, quiet and grounded, and sea salt and red algae clear the air through the middle with a freshness that feels deliberate. Tea drifts through without hurrying. Ambrette seed and wood build the base, warm and settled, and cedarwood anchors everything with enough depth to hold the lighter notes honest. By the time it's fully going, the room smells like someone who remembers what you said three weeks ago and brings it up at exactly the right moment. Someone who calls instead of texting when it matters. Smells like a person who says XOXO and actually means it. We're all trying to be that person. This candle gets you closer.

Soy wax, because we're not monsters

Vegan, clean-burning, and zero guilt. Your walls won't turn black, your lungs won't protest, and somewhere a soybean farmer is smiling.

Double cotton wicks

Two is better than one, like kidneys or chances at love. These babies throw scent like passive-aggressive comments at Thanksgiving dinner: thoroughly and effectively throughout the entire room.

The 15-minute rule

Good candles need foreplay. After a quarter hour, all those scent molecules start mingling like guests at an awkward party who finally found the wine. This is when the magic happens. Cheap candles? They peak immediately and disappoint forever.


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Sea Salt Makes Space Between Grapefruit and Cedar

Sea salt in candle fragrance operates differently than most people expect — it does not smell like the ocean or like a salt shaker. What the compound actually does is create olfactory space between the notes above and below it, the same way silence between musical notes makes the melody legible. In XOXO, that space matters because grapefruit and cedarwood occupy opposite ends of the scent spectrum: one is volatile, bright, and ephemeral, the other is slow, warm, and persistent. Without something in the middle to separate them, the transition from citrus to wood would feel abrupt — a jump rather than a glide. Sea salt and tea together fill that gap. Tea contributes a vegetal, almost tannin-like quality that shares chemical kinship with both the herbal sage at the top and the cedarwood at the base, creating a through-line that makes the arc feel cohesive. Ambrette seed at the base adds a musky warmth without introducing sweetness, which keeps the closing register of the candle as casual as the opening. Most grapefruit candles collapse into either a single bright note that fades within an hour or a citrus-sugar combination that reads as cleaning product by the second session. XOXO avoids both traps by keeping every layer dry rather than sweet, which extends the candle's usefulness into rooms where food fragrance would be unwelcome and spa fragrance would be too deliberate.

The Philosophy of No Waste

(Or: How We Convinced Ourselves We're Saving the Planet)

✔ All our soybeans are grown right here, probably judging us from their stalks

✔ They travel a grueling half-mile journey to become wax (the carbon footprint of a hummingbird)

✔ Each candle is hand-poured into containers we're absolutely certain you'll repurpose for cocktails (we're optimists)

✔ It's farm-to-table, except it's farm-to-flame, which sounds more dangerous but isn't

✔ 100% vegan, biodegradable, and clean-burning—because apparently that needs to be said now

Perfect Pairs for Any Shelf

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Yummy Mummy Fig Candle

Yummy Mummy follows XOXO in the lineup and moves from casual citrus to moody fig — greens, pepper, and cardamom open dark, violet and fig carry the middle somewhere sultrier, and sandalwood with cedarwood closes it low. Burning them in the same week demonstrates how far apart casual and moody sit in the same coconut-soy wax.

The Modern Fling Collection

Twenty-four Modern Fling scents, identical vessels, identical wax — the collection page sorts them by fragrance profile so casual-bright candles like XOXO sit together and a scroll toward the woody or earthy end reveals the full range. Comparing the lineup on one page makes finding a second scent for a different room considerably simpler.

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Plastic Travel Vase

A grapefruit candle with a low-key cedarwood base pairs naturally with something portable and functional nearby, and the Plastic Travel Vase serves that role — lightweight, sized for stems in transit or on a shelf, and visually uncomplicated enough to let XOXO's casual energy define the surface rather than competing for attention.


Grapefruit Was the Scent That Finally Convinced Management

Chive has been making objects since 2004, and grapefruit was the scent that finally convinced the team a citrus candle could hold up next to twenty-two years of ceramic work. XOXO went to Philadelphia Flower Show that season, where it drew attention from visitors who had walked past our candle table twice before turning around when the grapefruit throw caught them from the neighboring aisle.


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Frequently asked questions

What does a grapefruit scented soy candle smell like?

Grapefruit in soy wax smells bright, slightly bitter, and cleaner than lemon or orange. XOXO pairs it with sage at the opening, which pulls the citrus into herbal territory before sea salt and tea level out the middle. My roommate lit one in the kitchen and described it as 'Saturday morning with the windows open,' which is somehow the most accurate fragrance review I have received.

Is XOXO a good grapefruit candle for the bedroom?

The cedarwood-ambrette base is warm enough for evening use, and the grapefruit fades from bright to quiet within the first hour so it never reads as stimulating by lights-out. I ran one on the dresser all week and the tea note lingered at a level that registered as atmosphere rather than scent — noticeable when returning from the hallway but invisible while lying in bed.

How many hours does the XOXO double wick candle burn?

Sixty hours documented when wick trimming happens before each light and no session runs past four hours. My dentist tracked fifty-nine from his, which he attributed to a vent blowing directly over the vessel in his office — suboptimal conditions by any measure, and the candle still nearly hit the benchmark.

Is this coconut soy candle clean burning and non toxic?

The entire formula is plant-derived: coconut-soy wax, cotton wicks, fragrance oils that contain neither phthalates nor paraffin nor lead. The blend burns at a temperature low enough that combustion finishes completely every time — no soot deposits on the glass, no darkening above the vessel. I inverted a white mug over the flame for half a minute and the bottom stayed unmarked, which confirmed what the ingredient list already promised.

What room size does the XOXO eight ounce candle fill?

Grapefruit is one of the more volatile top notes, so a bedroom fills quickly — inside thirty minutes — and an open doorway lets the sage-citrus layer drift into a hallway or landing. The cedarwood base defines a warm perimeter near the glass rather than projecting across an entire floor plan. My bedroom is roughly eleven by seventeen and the throw filled it edge to edge before the wax had fully pooled, which says something about the fragrance load in the blend.

Is the XOXO candle a good gift for someone who loves grapefruit?

A strong choice because the grapefruit here sits in a sage-and-salt context that most grapefruit candles skip entirely. A citrus lover encounters the note they recognize wrapped in tea and cedarwood they did not see coming. I brought one to my neighbor, who eats a grapefruit every morning and considers the fruit a personality trait, and she went through it in two weeks and ordered a replacement — the kind of repeat behavior that answers the question definitively.

Can I reuse the glass container after the XOXO candle burns down?

Freeze overnight, extract the residual wax, wash clean. The vessel suits a desk for holding paper clips, a shelf for collecting small shells, or a bathroom counter for hair ties. My colleague cleaned his and keeps it on the windowsill as a propagation vessel for a pothos cutting, which gives the glass a second life greener than its first.

Where is the XOXO soy candle made and is it vegan?

Made in the country throughout. One farm grows and extracts the soy, coconut wax integration occurs regionally, and grapefruit fragrance enters the blend before each vessel gets its pour. The wicks are cotton, the oils are synthetic-botanical to hold citrus brightness across the burn, and the formula uses no beeswax, no tallow, nothing animal-sourced at any stage of production. Vegan, auditable, compact.